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Throw in the towel spoken English lesson
Success & Failure

Throw in the towel

You tried. It got too hard. Now you want to stop. That is when English speakers say throw in the towel.

Your Speaking Mission

Upgrade this simple sentence: "I gave up."

Upgrade The Sentence

Instead ofI gave up.

SayI threw in the towel.

Mini Dialogue

A: Are you still learning guitar?

B: No. I threw in the towel last month.

A: Really? I thought you were getting better.

B: I know, but I stopped enjoying it.

Say It Now

What is something you almost quit?

I almost threw in the towel when...

What would you tell a friend who feels stuck?

Don't throw in the towel yet. You can...

Repeat These

  • I almost threw in the towel.
  • Don't throw in the towel yet.
  • She threw in the towel after months of trying.
  • We are not throwing in the towel.

Say This, Not That

Instead ofI gave up.

SayI threw in the towel.

This sounds more natural when you stopped after trying hard.

Instead ofDon't give up.

SayDon't throw in the towel yet.

This sounds warmer and more spoken.

Careful

Be careful when you say it to another person. "Don't throw in the towel" can sound encouraging. "You threw in the towel" can sound critical.

Use It When

  • You tried for a while.
  • You feel tired or stuck.
  • Continuing does not seem worth it.
  • You want to say "I gave up" in a more natural way.

Skip It When

  • Do not use it for a tiny problem.
  • Do not use it before you have really tried.
  • Do not use it when you simply changed your mind.

Picture It

Think about boxing. A fighter is too tired to continue. The coach throws a towel into the ring. The fight stops.

Remember It

Towel goes in. The fight is over. You stop trying.

How It Sounds

Native speakers use it in casual and work conversations. It can sound sad, honest, or realistic. It does not always mean someone is weak.

Avoid This

  • Do not say throw the towel.
  • Do not say throw in towel.
  • Use throw in the towel.

Need A Simpler Line?

If you want a simpler sentence, say "I stopped trying."

What You Mean

Throw in the towel means you stop trying after real effort.

Imagine This

Imagine you worked on a project for weeks. You tried every fix. Nothing worked. You say, "I think we should throw in the towel."